What I found out wasn’t good. He was having an affair with other girls. Their names and personality, I didn’t even care to know. I confronted him about it and I was given two conditions – by him Stay and…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 10)
We had been friends for 8 years. He was there right from the time of Henry but I wouldn’t give him a chance. He didn’t like it. He asked me why I treated him the way I did and honestly…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 9)
As you read this, I may be fast asleep in lala land. Or I may be awake listening and meditating as the sound of my heartbeat reminds me to be grateful. It. Is. Another. Day. Why am I sounding like…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 8)
Aunty Ann called and asked me to come to the village. She said she needed to see me for something important. Once again, I set out on this “somewhat important” journey. On getting there, I met a very giant gate.…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 7)
My aunt and my grandpa have always been my sweethearts that I don’t take for granted. So, when she called me, I didn’t hesitate to get home that weekend. She made a special food for me and even gave me…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 6)
That faithful day, Chike called me. I told him I was in school. He said he was missing me and wanted us to spend some time together. I assured him I would come when I had gotten home, rested and…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 5)
Chike saw my picture on a mutual friend’s DP and asked to connect with me. It was on BBM. The first time we chatted, he kept making me laugh. There was nothing magical because I wasn’t thinking anything. It was…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 4)
From my room, I could see him. He hit the gate so hard and was furious. I wondered what happened but I dare not go downstairs to see him in that state. “You had the nerves to kiss my girlfriend.…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 3)
His name was Henry. I wondered how someone could be so handsome. Don’t blame a girl for loving fine people and fine things. I didn’t really do much about meeting Henry but after he spent time with his friend Best…
How My Boyfriends Helped Mold Who I Am Today (pt 2)
Be built, be fine, dress well, speak well, and at least you would have passed the first test. That was my way of auditing men. I was young and naive. I knew I wanted to explore but there was a…